The Girl Effect – Why 500,000 New Moms Dying a Year Is Not Bad News

by Stacey on October 4, 2011


Celia and Lupita

Imagine you’re walking on a washed-out, deeply rutted dirt road. There is no motor traffic because the constant rains have made the road impassable for months.  The sun is blazing hot, and you haven’t had anything to drink for hours.

You’re pregnant, in labor and in terrible pain. You live where there’s no doctor, no pain medicine, and no one can help. Your only hope is a clinic, still many hours away by foot. You know the clinic is rarely staffed, and you wonder if you’ll walk all that way for nothing.

The pain gets worse and you’re afraid your baby could die, you’re afraid you could die…and then you think of your precious 2-year old daughter. If you die, she will have no one.

Sounds like a nightmare, doesn’t it?

That’s not just my idea of a nightmare, it’s what actually happened to Celia.

In June of 2002 I led a maternal child health program for Doctors Without Borders in the mountain villages of southwest Mexico. One day I was brought to Celia’s one-room, tin-roofed home. She was lying on a small cot and said she didn’t feel well. I learned that she had given birth 8 days earlier.

Celia was 17 years old, and she had one other child. Her first birth had been unproblematic. But this time, even though her labor started in the evening and the contractions became stronger all night, there had been no signs of progress.

In the morning her family and her partero (a male midwife) realized something was wrong and decided to seek help in the closest town with a medical clinic. This meant a 7-8 hour walk, likely followed by a 4-5 hour drive to the only regional hospital.

After almost an hour of walking they realized that the road was in too poor a condition to be passable. Discouraged and in great pain, Celia decided to turn back.

Could Celia’s Story Have Been Different?

Once back in her home the partero again tried to facilitate the birth of the baby. When that did not work and the contractions seemed to diminish, he decided to give her an injection to stimulate the uterus.

About 10 minutes later the baby’s head came out and although the baby was alive, the rest of the body was stuck. The partero tried everything he could but ultimately the baby died, and this male midwife was driven to use great force to pull the baby out.

When I examined Celia, signs pointed to a uterine infection, and I gave her an antibiotic. I visited her several times a day for the week we were in her village, and every day we talked about her loss and grief. Even so, her 2-year-old daughter was the source of much joy for both of us. By the time we left, her vital signs were normal and she said she felt much better.

I’ll always remember Celia and wish the outcome of her second pregnancy had been different. With better access to care, I have no doubt her story would have been.

 

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How to Re-Write the Story

 

If you had met Celia in the throes of labor as she made her way up that dusty road in Mexico, I have no doubt you would have done everything in your power to help. You would count yourself grateful for the opportunity.

But here’s the thing: every minute, somewhere in the world, another woman experiences Celia’s nightmare. But unlike Celia, she doesn’t live through it. Five hundred thousand women a year die from pregnancy-related causes.

The lifetime risk of maternal death is one thousand times higher in a poor country, like Mexico, than in the United States. Unfortunately these numbers are not galvanizing but overwhelming. That’s not surprising: studies have shown again and again that statistics like these have a dulling effect.

They lead to a sense of futility and despair. People hear them and think, “What difference can I really make?” But the good news is that the same studies that have shown how statistics overwhelm people have shown that individual stories move people to act.

That’s because stories make you think twice about something as huge as entrenched poverty and global maternal health.  When you learn about the stories in the context of what people are doing about them, you don’t feel helpless, nor doubt that you could make a difference. You feel hope.

Consider The Girl Effect

The Girl Effect is a movement that focuses on the lives of girls in developing countries in order to address the root causes of broader societal problems.

Studies show that girls who have more education have better outcomes — not only for themselves but also for their families, their communities and the world. It’s no exaggeration to say that everything within a community changes when you give a girl access to education.

Every bit of existing research suggests that making an investment in education for girls will have a very, very far reach.

 

When a girl in the developing world receives seven or more years of education, she marries four years later and has 2.2 fewer children.

Also, studies show that the more schooling a girl the healthier her babies and children will be.

Celia had no school education, and it’s unlikely that her daughter, or any of her children, will have access to education either. Unless, of course, something changes. Unless we do something to help.

What You Can Do

 

1) Read other Girl Effect posts on this page.

2) Write your own Girl Effect post and help spread the message. You can post anytime during the week of October 4-11.

3) Donate. Send a girl to school. Give her a microloan. Start the Girl Effect. Just go here.

Light A Candle

Yes, 500,000 new moms die a year. But that’s not bad news, that’s reality. The bad news is that you feel despondent in the face of that reality.

I know the problems of the world seem overwhelming, and I struggle with hopelessness, too. But then I remember a quote I heard a long time ago (so long ago I don’t know who to attribute it to, and a Google search revealed nothing), “If we all lit a candle, there would be a tremendous light.”

This week, in honor of Tara Mohr’s Girl Effect Blogging Campaign and my 42nd birthday on Wednesday, October 5th, I’m lighting a candle by giving to The Girl Effect.

If you decide to give, please leave a comment letting me know how much you donated, and I will match that amount up to $420.

My birthday wish is that 42 friends will give $10, and we will raise $840!

Postscript: I asked my friends to give, with the promise to match every gift up to $420, and. . . THEY GAVE BIG! WE RAISED OVER $1,200 TO CHANGE THE LIVES OF GIRLS ALL OVER THE WORLD! If that isn’t a cause for celebration, I don’t know what is!

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ColleenNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 6:57 am

Happy Birthday, Stacey! I am in for 20 dollars!
love,
Colleen

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 7:02 am

Oh, wow!! That’s awesome, Colleen!!

Thanks so much!!

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BeckyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 8:49 am

Stacey, I donated $10. Happy Birthday!
Becky Swanson

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 9:20 am

Hooray! Thanks SO much, Becky!!

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SandyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:03 pm

Hey Stacey!
I just gave $10.
Happy Birthday!!
Sandy Suminski

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:07 pm

Hey Sandy!

Yay!! Thanks SO much!!

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LanceNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:27 pm

Stacey,
I’m in for $20.

You having experienced this first-hand…I can only imagine how much more real, more “close to home”…it all feels.

You are a gift to this world, Stacey – and that shines through always. Today, I’m deeply touched by your compassion and love…

Lance
P.S. Happy early birthday!!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:34 pm

Hey Lance!

Your kind words mean so much to me because YOU are such a HUGE source of light and compassion and love in the world.

Thanks so much for your birthday wishes and generous donation!!

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Tammy VitaleNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:28 pm

I am so grateful for my healthy kids (who aren’t kids anymore) and my healthy grandkids that I want to celebrate your one and only 42nd bday with a donation of $42. And posting on my FB too of course.

Marvelous story, Stacey. Thanks for (as always) reminding me of the power of stories. Thanks for a way out of the overwhelm – so many don’t know how to help us reach out.

Most of all, I know this is a ripple I’m sending out, that I will probably never see it reach a shore or shores, or the results, but I love those kinds of things. The world is a small place. I want it to be a better place for me grandkids.

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:38 pm

Hi Tammy!

Wowee! With your oh-so creative gift (always the artist!), you have brought the donations up to over $100 (friends have been declaring their gifts on Facebook, too) — which means at least $200 to The Girl Effect!!

This is SO exciting!!

Thank you also for your thoughtful and thought-provoking comment. Yes, we may not see the results of our actions, but we must believe they will make a positive difference!

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Desiree AdawayNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:36 pm

$20.00 from me my friend…and I am so grateful to know you!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 1:40 pm

Okay, I’m starting to get a little verklempt now. Thanks so much, dear friend (and courage-building buddy). I appreciate YOU so much.

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PaulaNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 2:09 pm

Hi Stacey,

Happy, Happy Birthday Stacey! I echo what other’s are saying about you being such a wonderful gift of Light to this world. I am honored that I found you and I get to participate in my path illumination process with you. ♥Thank you!! ♥
I donated $10 today.

Love-n-Light,
~Paula High-Young
Albuquerque, NM

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 2:21 pm

Hi Paula!

Thanks so much for echoing what others are saying AND magnifying it with your own lovely sentiments!

And thanks SO much for giving a gift to The Girl Effect.

Lots of love and light to you!!

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Alison from GlobalGivingNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 2:34 pm

Stacey, we’re thrilled that you’re using your wonderful platform to help tell the story of the Girl Effect and to raise awareness for girls’ issues in the developing world. We work with the fantastic projects who benefit from Girl Effect funds, and we can assure you that they are doing incredible and important work. Thank you so much for your efforts and generosity – and thanks for the generosity of your readers, too!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 6:48 pm

Wow! Thanks so much for stopping by and letting me know that you noticed my blog. It really has been a wonderful experience for me to help spread the word about your great work!

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Donna ReeveNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 4:26 pm

Happy Birthday!
What a beautiful gesture. You’ll be helping so many women with this kindness.
I added $15.
hugs, Donna

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 6:52 pm

Thanks SO much, Donna! I appreciate YOU so much!

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Deborah SteinbergNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 4:42 pm

Hi Stacey,
Happy Birthday and thank you for your personal story. I donated $25. You give so much to so many people! I hope you have a great day!
Love,
Deborah

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 6:54 pm

Hi Deborah! Thanks so much for your kind wishes and for letting me know the story resonated with you. YOU have made it a VERY HAPPY birthday!!

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RuthieNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 6:13 pm

I’m in for $25. I love you!! Happy birthday tomorrow! I’ll be looking at WAYA to see how you celebrated.

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 4, 2011 at 6:56 pm

Oh my goodness, Ruthie! Thanks SO much! I love you, too!!

(And WAYA is on hiatus, but suffice to say that I am SO appreciating the outpouring of support for The Girl Effect in honor of my birthday!)

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Laurie RosenfeldNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 4:12 am

Stacey, first I heard about you when Emelie Rota guest posted on your blog a few months ago. I also saw your RHHLive video entry and cheered you on! Love your work!

Also appreciating your heartfelt post about The Girl Effect! I joined the blogging campaign this year too. And I donated $115 to The Girl Effect. So glad you’re sharing this with your people and honored o be on the journey with you!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 6:42 am

Hi Laurie!

Thanks SO much for your incredibly kind note! I’m thrilled to know that you gave such a generous donation to The Girl Effect!

Emelie is one of my favorite people, and now I count YOU among them, too! :-)

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KrystalNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 12:21 pm

Hey Stacey,
I have donated $20. Happy Birthday and thanks for getting awareness out!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 12:30 pm

Krystal,

Thanks so much! The response has really been overwhelming. And it’s wonderful to be part of such a great cause!

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TheresaNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:42 pm

Stacey,

I’m going to give $50. Thanks so much for bringing my attention to such an important effort!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:43 pm

Theresa,

Thanks so much! I’m so honored by all the folks who have chosen to give!

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MabelNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:53 pm

Stacey,

What a wonderful idea! I am so amazed by the work this organization is doing. I believe that anytime you empower women you work miracles in a country. Thanks so much for letting me know about this important work!

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Katrina KenisonNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:54 pm

Stacey, Such a lovely way to celebrate your birthday. From one Libra to another, I just donated $20. Happy birthday to you!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:58 pm

Katrina,

Thank you so much! These gifts mean so much to me. I’m thrilled that we can make such a difference together!

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MabelNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:55 pm

I was so excited – I forgot to say. I’m giving $100. And happy birthday!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 2:55 pm

Thanks so much – such a lovely comment and so true. And thanks for being so generous! :)

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DebbyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 8:26 pm

Stacey,
Your story was so beautifully written. You really know now to make a connection. And thank you for introducing me to the Girl Effect. I gave $50 for two worthy causes – the Girl Effect and celebrating your birthday!

Debby

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 8:31 pm

Hi Debby!

Wow! Your kind message and your incredibly generous donation have put me OVER THE MOON!!

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Deborah JohnsonNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 9:00 pm

Happy belated birthday Stacey,

from one Midwife to another! Help the moms and babies worldwide!
Such a good idea and a great cause.
:)
Deborah Johnson CNM
Ladyhealthcoach.com

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 6, 2011 at 7:16 am

Hey Deborah!

Thanks so much for the (not belated!) birthday wishes and, most of all, for championing girls’ and women’s rights your whole career!!

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BobbyNo Gravatar October 5, 2011 at 11:26 pm

Hey Sis,

$50 donated… $25 from me, $25 from Hannah. Happy Birthday… what a wonderful way to celebrate it!

See you in a couple days!

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 6, 2011 at 7:17 am

Hey Bobby!

Thanks so much to you *and* Hannah for giving such a generous donation! You two rock! I can’t wait to see you this weekend!

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Cindy MurdockNo Gravatar October 11, 2011 at 1:18 am

Hi Stacey,

I am so glad to see you blogging about the Girl Effect. What a wonderful first-hand story you told. And your readers response is truly impressive. I am always so touched by the generosity of the people I meet when presented with a true need.

You are probably aware that there are young girls and women all over the world who are unable to care for themselves during their periods. They resort to things like newspaper, leaves, ashes, or old mattress stuffing or they stay isolated for several days EVERY month! How long could you keep up in school if you missed one week out of every month? Right, many drop out never finishing the education that could help them better their situation. I work with a special organization called Days for Girls International (www.daysforgirls.org). We provide feminine hygiene kits to non-profit organizations for distribution to schools, orphanages, and villages in developing countries. Please check out our website to see what you and your readers can do to help. Or drop in on our Facebook page to catch the action at http://www.Facebook.com/DaysforGirls. This is an amazing work. It takes so little of the resources we have to make a big difference in the life of a girl in need.

Thank you,
Cindy Murdock
Days for Girls International Ambassador
Northern New Mexico

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StaceyNo Gravatar October 11, 2011 at 10:28 am

Hi Cindy!

Thanks so much for your thoughtful and thought-provoking note!

I remember reading about this particular challenge, of providing supplies for menstruating girls who would otherwise not be able to go to school, when I read Half the Sky by Nick Kristoff and Shirley Wu and I’m so glad to know about your organization that addresses it.

I will be sure to “like” your Facebook page and spread the word of your great work.

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StaceyNo Gravatar December 30, 2011 at 9:40 am

I realize that I should have left an update on the final tally: I asked my friends to give, with the promise to match every gift up to $420, and. . . THEY GAVE BIG! WE RAISED OVER $1,200 TO CHANGE THE LIVES OF GIRLS ALL OVER THE WORLD! If that isn’t a cause for celebration, I don’t know what is!

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